5 Best ways to Use a BDSM cane
"Feel the rush as you grip it, each stroke radiating power and precision. Let the cane land with deliberate, teasing purpose, sending sparks of sensation that leave them craving more. This is just the beginning."
If you’re a beginner, be sure to read BDSM Cane Buying Guide For Both Beginners and Pros and 10 Best BDSM Sex Toys of 2024 for Beginners
Low-risk areas include:
- Buttocks – Aim between the crest of the buttocks and the top of the thighs to ensure you steer clear of the kidneys, et al.
- Thighs – The fleshy backs of the thighs. Much, much more sensitive than the arse, but still relatively safe for impact play.
And here are some higher-risk locales to be approached with caution:
- Feet & Hands – The soles of the feet and palms of the hands are wonderfully sensitive and incredibly satisfying to whack.
- Inner Thighs – Even more sensitive than the backs of the thighs.
- Genitals – This is, I’m sure you know already, a really sensitive area for almost anyone. Be gentle. Go slow. Get feedback from the person who receives the hit.
Using BDSM canes has physical benefits. Gentle caning helps blood circulation. It also provides intense sensory stimulation. This can enhance the overall experience.
It elevates both physical and mental sensations. This can make the BDSM sex experience more fulfilling and enjoyable.
Different impact play sensations
You can create a whole bunch of different sensations with a cane BDSM, depending on how you hit someone with it. Bounce it off their skin for a lighter, stingier sensation, or whale on them for a thuddy and heavy feel.
Lightly tapping the same line over and over again creates a sensation that’s maddening for some people. As does interspersing a series of light taps with a severe slash. Find what makes them regret their life choices, then do that.
Troubleshooting
Wrapping
When you hit someone with a BDSM cane, the tip of the cane is moving real fast. If the middle part of the cane hits their arse before the tip, the tip will keep moving, wrapping around and smacking them on the hip.
While this is deliciously painful, it’s also a bit untidy. Some people don’t like it, and they have good reasons. Hitting the bottom often brings more pleasure than striking the hip. Plus, letting the cane BDSM “wrap” like this makes it more likely to break.
To prevent this from happening, aim to land the tip of the caned BDSM squarely on the fleshy part of the buttock. It’ll make a more satisfying sound that way anyhow.
Train tracks
Most traditional canings leave the bottom with a series of parallel marks, like train tracks. These look fun and distinctive and have the added advantage of not criss-crossing canes BDSM strikes.
When you criss-cross you’re layering damage to the skin in some areas, and might do more damage than you intend. If that’s something you want to avoid, aim to lay your strokes out neat and parallel to one another.
Personally, though, I absolutely love a messy, intense caned BDSM session. Your mood may vary.
Swooshing
When using natural BDSM canes, swinging your cane through the air can weaken it. This makes it more likely to break. If you want to avoid this, avoid swooshing your cane… or get a synthetic one. Have I mentioned how much I prefer them?
We hope this guide helps you find the right BDSM cane for your needs. This is true whether you are new to cane BDSM or an experienced fan.
Choosing the right BDSM canes can enhance your experiences. They can create deeper connections and more intense feelings during your BDSM sessions. May your journey with BDSM canes lead to safe, thrilling, and unforgettable encounters!
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